First a long philosophical (of sorts) discussion ... what else would you expect from the yang side?
At the core of it all, you need to understand that when we left the US, several cultural differences were encountered, but ours were encountered onboard, not on shore. We didn't even recognize the subtle differences for years. And then too, the subliminal training stayed with us for over a year ... seeing the world and our role in it the way we were trained. But we also recognized that these changes work 'here' on ceilidh but would not stay with us if we returned to America. They couldn't stay with us: different game with different rules.
Biggest difference: there is no mass media where we are. We don't have the advertising industry incessantly telling us to buy more, buy faster. We don't have the same industry telling us what the perfect lifestyle would be through TV or movie role models: more gadgets, better car, faster computer/internet, and so on. The psychological drivers creating greed and consumption have been (slowly) stripped away. Entertainment is self-generated or shared with friends. Simply being quiet and feeling/experiencing the environment is an enjoyable activity.
We also have limited choices: shopping is not a recreational activity in the same sense it is in America. Shopping for price rarely results in a savings of more than a few cents for an hour's work. You deal with the people you come to like. Eventually the prices come down. Shopping for variety is possible only in the larger towns (rarely encountered in our favored areas) and even then variety is nothing like in America. How many brands, types, formulations of sausage (meat, vegetarian, and vegan) can you find among all the supermarkets (individually and collectively), speciality gourmet shops, and meat markets in a convenient driving distance? We're lucky to find 6-10 TOTAL in an entire town (even the big ones) and that would take over a couple of hours of walking or several hours of bussing. Usually there is one meat market with two types: regular and spicy. Sometimes there is no sausage in a town: buy the whole cuts of meat then grind and blend your own that day. Limited choices, go with the flow. It's delicious!
The same lack of mass media has caused us to re-evaluate our usage and recycling practices. Not of trash, but of possessions. When outfitting ceilidh (especially while I was still working), we would just buy a new replacement, get exactly what we needed ... new. Now we mend, repair, make do. I even clean bolts and nuts and save them for reuse. Clothes are pushed beyond all normal standards in America because each has become (in its way) a favorite. If at all possible, I figure out a way to repair something with what I have on hand, not get a new piece of equipment like I did in America. In that way, ceilidh is getting to be (if you know where to look) more & more like a cruising boat. That 'temporary' fix will last for ten years so why lust after a whole new component? It would be much easier and faster to spend money, but why?
The one thing we have in excess is time. Learning, practising, then doing things ourselves that would be economically unjustified to employed Americans ("My time is worth more than that!"). Most cruisers have more disposable income than we do. So we have more time to 'spend' than we do money. So we spend more time on what we do than we spend money on the activity or project. Example, walking instead of busses, busses instead of taxis, taxis instead of car rentals (never a car rental).
One noticeable difference when no one is around: Hope and I simply enjoy each other (almost all of the time). Some have noted (exclaimed!) that this means we are together 24x7. I will sit and do nothing but listen to her play her harp. We will sit together touching & reading. We work together, shop together, explore together, and still it seems like 24x7 isn't enough (most of the time).
Another noticeable difference is that our home is in a constant state of decay (saltwater) and breakage (extreme usage ... sailing and passage-making). So no matter whether we are in a posh marina or on the hook in a remote anchorage, there is maintenance to do from polishing (to keep a finish that resists saltwater corrosion), to routine servicing (there are few qualified workers to do what is needed even if we had the money), to overhauling major components. You've got to like it (maintenance), be challenged by it, and be up to it, or it becomes a reason to quit.
So what did we do today: Up at 6:30 for coffee and a snack for Hope and pack for showers on shore. Check state of batteries, any weird noises heard during night. 7:00, put the dinghy in the water and get the outboard on (put away each night to lessen growth on the submerged surfaces). 7:15 leave for shore, tie up, drop things off at Puerto Amistad (local cruiser facility). 7:30, start walking around the point to the other side of town with a friend. Meet other friends on the walk (old friends new to town) and chat for awhile to catch up on adventures, answer their questions since we've been here longer. Usually 8:30 (but today 8:45) get back to Puerto Amistad for showers. 9:00-9:15 get back on ceilidh for breakfast (& dishes, & make bed, & straighten up, & etc), listen to the SSB radio net (catch up on friends not here) & weather, hang up exercise duds & towels. 9:45 go back (most weekdays) for Spanish class from 10:00-11:00. 11:00-2:00, in-town chores. Today: internet (15 min walk from class) and some groceries (15 min from internet) (someone needed copies of tax forms, we needed to make a VISA payment, etc). Walk downtown to mercado for fresh food (veggies, meat, bread, all little specialty shops spread out over a few blocks). Today we walked to the other end of town to find the one 'supermarket' in town. Bought a few things but decided it was too pricey for routine shopping, it's cheaper to eat out than shop there. Last Thursday we had to find the DHL office (& FedEx to compare prices & times) to mail a post office form & copies of IDs to our new mail forwarding service (took11-3, getting them notarized was another hour). Meet friends in the street, both cruisers and locals. Get back to ceilidh, put things away. Yesterday we had water jugs waiting for us to pour in the tanks (can't make water here). 2:00-5:00 or sometimes right after class 'til done: chores on ceilidh. The water line needed cleaning (without getting in the water) over the weekend. Other days: replace or repair used components, make repairs of things damaged in getting here (example, I'm having to re-engineer how the rudder post is held in place at the top). Hope has laundry that we hang around ceilidh on some sunny days. We're going to be making repairs to the sails, new dinghy chaps, I cleaned out the anchor locker (long overdue), etc ... our list runs to dozens of items not all of which we will complete here. We'll need to search out a coffin maker (apparently the only woodworkers in town) that can also make table tops. 5:00 or so have a 'delicious drink' (today Pisco sours) and plan dinner, spend some time together, just focused on each other. 7:00 do Spanish home work. 8:00 read & put dinghy away (outboard off & locked on stern rail, dinghy hanging & secured to lifelines). 9:00-9:30 turn in for the night.
Other possible activities that sneak in routinely: Local travel: Saturday we took a ferry/bus trip to another town up the coast that lasted from after the net (10ish) 'til 4:00 ... 3 hours in the resort town, 3 hours on ferries and busses looking at the scenery. Optional activities: Naps occasionally sneak in there (siestas work!). Dinners with or at friends' once in awhile. Happy hour with friends at Puerto Amistad once in awhile to trade in-land travel information or catch up on old/recent times. So far on two days ... 2-3 hours watching the Ecuador world cup team and celebrate briefly with the locals, they go on for hours, we go back to boat projects. We run one of the SSB cruiser nets on Friday morning and have been helping out on an unofficial one at 5pm each evening for others making the passage to here (often the longest any of us have made). Research (mostly Hope) & talk about land trips to Quito & Mindo, then Cuenca & Machu Picchu. Hope has been cat sitting for friends traveling inland for the past 10 days, two trips a day and time at their boat. I've been going with her some of the time. Write emails (Hello!) and blog postings. Edit, upload, and label photos. Financial tracking (where does that little amount of money get to?). Planning & dreaming where we'd like to go next in ceilidh: this involves researching & understanding weather patterns for the planned passage time, environment, currents, friendliness of local officials, what-if (something goes wrong) scenarios, provisioning needs (& availability on the other end), figuring out what projects have to be completed for such a passage ... obviously not just jumping in the car & driving down the coast. Trying to track down info on unidentified, broken parts not available outside the US. Searching out sources locally for broken bits or specialized services. Practice & fiddle with our musical instruments. Track down & eliminate this or that computer glitch. And so on.
So we feel quite occupied in mind and body and heart.
love from the three of us,
yang & yin
s/v ceilidh
Bahia de Caraquez, Ecuador
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